Friday, September 10, 2010

When Friends Break Your Trust

What is a friend? A friend is someone that you can trust, you can tell your secrets, someone one who understands your struggles and perserverence. Someone who knows the real you. And accepts you for who you are without question.

What if they broke that trust? Using those secrets that you told them against you in anger when you both had a fight? How can you trust them again?

I have a friend like that whom I love and had this situation but I was so scared from the experience that I truly just cannot trust this person again with anything in my life. I have to keep them at arms length. Even though I truly care for this person they just have done damage that is beyond repair. My mind is telling me to "trust them" but my heart can't do it. How does one get over this friendship treachery?? TIME!